Wednesday, September 27, 2017

The Secret To Empowered Lifestyles

By Mary Johnson


One will notice that there are a lot of people who seem happier and mentally as well as emotionally stronger than most. Those people who are looking from the outside would wonder what exactly makes these people so empowered and strong that they are able to get through struggle without much of a scratch. The secret to that would simply be in having a mindset that contributes to empowered lifestyles.

Now, the first thing to know about people like these is that they are self motivated meaning that they do not need any outside factor to motivate them to do anything. Basically, once one has already developed the mindset that he can do anything he wants as long as he wants to put his head to it, then this will be the first step of empowerment. With this mindset, one will no longer look outward for motivation but rather inward.

Alongside this kind of mindset, there would also be some action that goes with it. The thing about those who believe in empowerment is that they never stop increasing their arsenal of skills. They always want to learn something new that they know will benefit them in the long run.

Another very unique trait about these people is that they do not really care about what other people think of them or how other people feel about them. If there is someone who does not like them, they will most likely ignore it and concentrate on doing their other more important tasks. That trait in itself, is already a very empowering one because it releases one from the grip other people have on them which is known as shame.

If one is wondering, yes they still do listen to people and take their feelings into consideration. However, the difference here would be that these kinds of people know how to screen through the important people in order to know which opinions count and which do not. They will most likely only take the opinions or the things that they know will help them in their lives.

Aside from that, one will be able to see that these people are always full of energy. They just love life and are so enthusiastic about whatever they do. They are not particularly optimistic neither are they pessimistic. Basically, they know the harsh reality of life but they also know that as long as it is their own life, they have control over it.

Lastly, these type of people do not fret in any type of situation. Rather, they calmly weigh all the options together and think of a solution instead of focusing on the problem. They know what they can control while they know what cannot be controlled which is why they do not bother stressing about anything.

Basically, empowering oneself is not about reading a book or being riled up by charismatic speakers. It is about accepting life the way it is and taking control of it. The only way to empower is to take the power from any type of situation and use it to an advantage for a gain.




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