The most traumatic, stressful and worrying memory for anyone could be something which is very disturbing for their soul and rape is one of the traumatic situations. Its not easy to discuss this issue but you have to keep believing that no matter what happened or how bad it was, but still rape doesnt define me otherwise the whole perspective will change.
It may be the case that he took you out for a date and that night wound up with taking without end the most valuable thing from you. It may be the case that even after the episode you would need to encounter a similar individual again particularly in the event that he was your companion or associate.
In order to feel the true sadness of such thing, consider this particular story where a girl got raped by her dear friend and he planned a date with her and they went on a beautiful date and that night it ended up with her loud screams. Now, its hard for her to forget that night ever and the days after that incident were even more worse as her friend who raped her was actually her university fellow as well.
In the beginning she started avoiding to go to university and she used to hide here and there so she cannot face that person and tried to avoid going in dining halls and gym because he used to be over there. It was kind of like a hide and seek game for a couple of months.
You feel like you cannot cope up with the world anymore and its hard for you to return back to your normal day to day routine.`` Since you can't give anybody authorization to take control over you life and exacerbate it for you.
That girl began going to the places she was avoiding before and decided to go to gym where he used to come and then started facing that person rather than running away from that place because she wanted to show him that she's strong enough and can deal with this situation. All these little steps were very helpful for her to get her life back on track.
That was the time when she at last chose to help different casualties who were experiencing this circumstance since it gave her inclination that by helping other people she can really deliver retribution from her assaulter and demonstrating to him that her life has not halted on account of this occurrence and she is certainly not a frail individual.
It can take years for you to tell your story after such an incident but you should never feel ashamed of yourself because it was not something that happened because of you or you were not at fault. You will go through many emotional phases and although what happened to you was horrible but still you have to learn how to trust people again. Rape cannot define your personality it was just a very bad phase of you life and it was a horrible time but things do get better with time all you need is faith.
It may be the case that he took you out for a date and that night wound up with taking without end the most valuable thing from you. It may be the case that even after the episode you would need to encounter a similar individual again particularly in the event that he was your companion or associate.
In order to feel the true sadness of such thing, consider this particular story where a girl got raped by her dear friend and he planned a date with her and they went on a beautiful date and that night it ended up with her loud screams. Now, its hard for her to forget that night ever and the days after that incident were even more worse as her friend who raped her was actually her university fellow as well.
In the beginning she started avoiding to go to university and she used to hide here and there so she cannot face that person and tried to avoid going in dining halls and gym because he used to be over there. It was kind of like a hide and seek game for a couple of months.
You feel like you cannot cope up with the world anymore and its hard for you to return back to your normal day to day routine.`` Since you can't give anybody authorization to take control over you life and exacerbate it for you.
That girl began going to the places she was avoiding before and decided to go to gym where he used to come and then started facing that person rather than running away from that place because she wanted to show him that she's strong enough and can deal with this situation. All these little steps were very helpful for her to get her life back on track.
That was the time when she at last chose to help different casualties who were experiencing this circumstance since it gave her inclination that by helping other people she can really deliver retribution from her assaulter and demonstrating to him that her life has not halted on account of this occurrence and she is certainly not a frail individual.
It can take years for you to tell your story after such an incident but you should never feel ashamed of yourself because it was not something that happened because of you or you were not at fault. You will go through many emotional phases and although what happened to you was horrible but still you have to learn how to trust people again. Rape cannot define your personality it was just a very bad phase of you life and it was a horrible time but things do get better with time all you need is faith.
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