Saturday, December 15, 2018

How To Know You Have Anger Management Problems

By Deborah Butler


Humans laugh, smile, cry and even get angry. Those are natural emotions that a normal human being feels. Likewise, people would really say that to you so that you can let your raw emotions out. Cry if you feel sad. Smile or laugh whenever you feel happy. Be angry if it frustrates you. On the last part, too much of anger can sometimes lead you to bad consequences. Not only you might physically or emotionally hurt people with that emotion, you might also became lost and uncontrollable. When that occurs, an anger management counseling Seattle is needed.

All humans have definitely experienced being angry towards something or someone. An elder suddenly started to complain and swear because the line for the ticket booth is too long and he is now hungry. A woman slapped her boyfriend because she caught him cheating. You too have that moment when your blood is starting to boil and going up to your head, making you explode. It is okay to feel that way, however, it will now be bad if you express it in a wrong way.

Let us have an example of situation. Hayley caught her sister, Lily, using her cell phone without asking permission. She was afraid that Lily will read her secret messages to her boyfriend. But Lily was stubborn and will not return it to her. As a result, Hayley became angry. In that situation, put yourself unto the shoes of Hayley. What will you do?

So in that situation, Sheba suddenly went to Jenna and began grabbing her hair and punch her while yelling some insults about her. That certainly describes a serious problem. However, some normal beings do that when they cannot hold it anymore. So what are the actual signs and symptoms to consider that a person is indeed some having some problems or issues?

The behaviour of Corrine shows how those people with anger issues behave. They do not know how to calm down when they feel aggravated and livid. And most of the time, the way they interact with others would usually be mixed with fury.

Another sign is their level of aggression. Out of rage, they would physically harm that person and show some aggressive behaviour like beating, punching, yelling or using objects to displace their anger. And it would turn worse once alcohol and drugs are involved. They might even harm themselves in frustration.

Those individuals having that kind of problem will have difficulty in their social relationship. Nevertheless, it still can be mended. In addition, venting out is not also the good solution since it can only add fuel to the fire. There are actually therapies which could help a person in that case.

In that case, a professional and medical advice from psychologists and guidance counsellors are helpful. They will then recommend the anger management therapy. This therapy might be done by individual or group. Moreover, clients will also be taught on controlling their rage and impulse as well teaching them some techniques for relaxation and breathing.

If this is also your problem, much better to seek a psychologist for this. Dealing with this might be hard. But if you have sincerity and courage to be well, this can be treated.




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