Thursday, May 22, 2014

All About Relationship Coaching Services

By Minnie Whitley

Relationships are often taken for granted by a lot of people these days which would result in a lot of fights and disagreements between parties. Now relationships do not only mean married couples but it could mean relationships between family members, workers, or even friends. If one feels like his relationship with somebody is already starting to strain but he still wants to save it, then he may want to try out some relationship coaching services.

Now the thing about people is that they would usually brush off these issues in hopes that it would just go away. However, on the contrary, the more one would drag on these relationship issues, the worse it will become actually. Now it is up to the coaches to be able to come up with some ways in order for the clients to reconcile with their loved ones.

Basically, they will only be giving three options to the clients depending on their assessment of the client. These choices would be to fix the relationship, just let go of it, or just create a new one with somebody else. Now the first thing that the coach would do would be to simply to talk to the client to know what is really happening.

This is done so that the coach will know the situation and the background behind the entire story. Now aside from talking to the client, it is very important that one would also talk about the other affected parties who are directly involved in the case. That way, he will be able to know both sides of the story and make a better assessment.

Now when assessing the relationships of people, he has to make sure he knows what the main problem is or simply put, the root of all evil. After he has done this, then he will have to have an individual session with both of them so that he will know what they think individually. By speaking to them individually, he will be able to get them to talk more objectively.

After he has done this, then the next part would be the implementing of activities. Of course one would be very familiar with the very famous open forum strategy. This activity is wherein there will be a mediator who will have both parties talk one at a time for a certain number of minutes just to let everything out.

Another one would be the positive reinforcement exercise wherein one would write down a list of good things about the person. From there, they will then talk to each other about this list. After that, they will then write down the bad things about each other and they will talk about it.

Now there will be times wherein the two parties just cannot reconcile. In these cases, the coach will just ask that they both compromise because as much as possible, it is not good to terminate relationships. All they have to do would be to just give each other space and respect the space of each other so that there will not be friction.

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